Relationships are always full of transition. Whether you’re loving your single years and learning to be in a relationship with yourself, or making the most of the dating years with your person, or figuring out that waiting in marriage is a reality you have to contend with on the regular. Relationships are always full of … Continue reading Show Up For Your Now
When I got married, one of the things I did was drop my father’s name and adopt my husband’s name. I went the whole nine yards which included getting a new ID with the new name. A few years into marriage, it’s not something I think all that much about. But recently, I was getting … Continue reading Marriage & Purpose III
In February, I wrote a post about why I think marriage exists – Marriage & Purpose. During a conversation with my husband about it, he encouraged me to do a follow-up post. And so, here we are. 🙂 How we enter marriage counts. The last lap to the wedding is often a time when many, … Continue reading Marriage & Purpose II
“You can’t turn out a light, shining on the inside.” Steffany Gretzinger (Blackout) In this video, Dr. Wanjiru Kamau-Rutenburg talks about how she hates the phrase “women are their own worst enemies” and she puts to task anyone who uses it. Why? Narrative creates expectation. What we say, do, experience and believe today determines what … Continue reading The Woman I Am
This is the second post in a 3-part series on a fundamental aspect of marriage and family – having children. Part 1: When Are You Having Children? Part 2: Why Are You Getting Children? Part 3: Waiting To Have Children There are girls who dream of their weddings from a very early age. There are … Continue reading Why Are You Getting Children?