The Power Of Perspective

So much of what we think and say about the world is centred on what we perceive of it as individuals. What I see, feel, hear, experience… Even in the Church, many of conversations revolve around me, myself and I.

Indeed, there is a place for our introspection as individuals. After all, no one sees the world in the exact same way as the next person. Each of us is the unique total of our past, present and future.

But I constantly wonder about how much faith and trust we put in what we perceive as individuals. Especially as believers.

Our perspective of life as individuals is limited. Extremely so. In a world as vast as ours, and with a God whose magnitude is beyond our comprehension, it’s a lofty thing to imagine that we could possibly know enough as individuals to be accurate judges of life.

Yes, the body has many different parts, not just one part. If the foot says, “I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand,” that does not make it any less a part of the body. And if the ear says, “I am not part of the body because I am not an eye,” would that make it any less a part of the body? If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were an ear, how would you smell anything?

But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. How strange a body would be if it had only one part! Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”

 In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary.  And the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen,  while the more honorable parts do not require this special care. So God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity. This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other.  If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad.

All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it.

1 Corinthians 12:14-27 NLT

If we don’t understand why the Body of Christ exists, we will not supply into it and benefit from it as we should.

If we don’t understand why we express our faith differently as believers within the same church community, we will miss out on the blessing and breakthrough we’re carrying for each other.

Many of the faith arguments I come across remind me of this analogy of two blind men trying to describe an elephant. One is touching the elephant’s trunk and describing it accurately. The other is touching the elephant’s tail and describing it accurately. But because of their blindness they don’t realize they’re both right and keep arguing over whose description is correct.

Truth be told, we’re wasting so much time as believers arguing like the two blind men over trunks and tails. Only, we don’t even seem to realize just how blind we are.  

Maybe the reason we see and experience God differently is because He has positioned us in life in different ways. No single believer, ministry, church, community, tribe or race has the ability to fully comprehend all there is to God. Each one of us gets a different piece of the puzzle and only when we come together can we get the full picture.

Now, this is not an excuse for erroneous doctrine and errant practices in the name of God. There’s a fine line we must all walk in discerning what we simply don’t know and what is completely wrong.

Unfortunately, we often collapse the two. Because I have no record of this thing you’re saying/doing in my journey of faith, then you must be wrong. As if God is obligated to move in their life in the exact same manner that He has moved in yours.

Yet, if we were truly to connect with each other in love as the Body, we would be better able to keep each other in check. It’s always ironic to see believers on opposing ends of a matter who don’t realize that if they were to genuinely acknowledge each other’s perspectives, they’d realize they’ve both been right in some things and both been wrong in others.

What if we laid down our pride and humbly admitted to ourselves and others that we do get it wrong sometimes?

What if we laid down our pride and humbly accepted that we don’t know everything there is to God and faith and Christianity, no matter how many years we’ve been saved?

What if we laid down our pride and humbly submitted ourselves to the Holy Spirit to help us discern that which is beyond our experience?

What if we laid down our pride and humbly acknowledged that our Christianity is incomplete without the rest of the Body and we truly need each other?

What if we laid down our pride and humbly created bridges with each other as members of the same Body?

It doesn’t mean that we’ll always understand one another or agree on everything. But it does mean that we’ll be looking beyond ourselves to someone greater – Jesus.

“I do not ask for these only, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.

John 17: 20-23 ESV

In this last prayer Jesus made before His ascension, He prayed for the unity of the Body. Out of all the things He could have prayed for in this pivotal hour, this was one of the critical things He chose.

Christ is the Head of our Body. Not any believer (in leadership or not) or denomination or church community or doctrine or race or nation. Christ. Maybe if we step out of our little cultural, denominational and faith bubbles, we’ll realize just how blind we’ve been to the greater work of His kingdom that’s at stake. A work that cannot be done by one church community and requires us all to do our part, not in silos but together in fellowship and in unity.

If the sum total of your Christianity doesn’t include anyone or anything beyond your typical Sunday Christian circles, it may be time to widen your gaze and start looking for some bridges to walk across. If you can’t find them, build them.

We cannot afford to let our pride and fear get in the way of our unity anymore. Not in this day and age. Find your place in Christ’s Body. Do your part for its well-being. It’s far from easy. It will require you to do hard and holy things, as Ann Voskamp puts it. But what lies ahead of us in light of our unity makes it all the more worth it.



Have you ever noticed that the word – compromise – is mostly made up of the word – promise?

Another fun fact: the prefix “com” means with/together/in association.

Preceding compromise is the promise of something.

Adam and Eve had been given Eden by God.

Esau had his inheritance as first born.

Saul had divine favour and support as king.

Compromise results as a departure from the original promise to an alternative promise.

For Adam and Eve, it was the promise to be more like God in their knowledge of good and evil.

For Esau, it was the promise of a bowl of stew that would satisfy his hunger.

For Saul, it was the promise that his sacrifice would be more pleasing to God than his obedience.

On the surface, none of these alternative promises look like a terrible thing. Until you consider the price that was paid for them.

Adam and Eve lost the life God had intended for them in Eden.

Esau lost his inheritance.

Saul lost God’s approval and favour on his life as king.

Not every promise is worth the price tag it comes with. Especially if it means settling for far less than what was rightfully yours.

As believers, we have a ton of promises from God through his written and spoken word. But these promises often require us to wait for their fulfillment. In this period of waiting, we are vulnerable to compromise. Because, let’s be honest, waiting for something we deeply desire to have can get rough.

On the flipside, being familiar with a promise already fulfilled can also leave us open to compromise. When we’re used to the idea of having something or enjoying something, we never stop to think that one bad decision could result in us losing it forever.

There are three root causes of compromise I want to delve into:

The fear of being short-changed by God.

Re: Adam and Eve

At the core of this fear, is a lack of complete trust in God in a particular area of your life. There may be some trust but there could also be some doubt mixed in there. This results in a dangerous cocktail of I’m kind of with God but I’m also kind of not sure He’ll come through for me so I need to have my own back.

Ergo, taking up an alternative promise that gives you the illusion of control over a situation.

Are there aspects of your life where you struggle to fully trust God’s intentions for you or His ability to provide for your needs and desires?

Can you trace back to when this fear first began? Was it something that happened or didn’t happen as expected? What truth of that situation does God want you to now see and understand?

The hunger of now.

Re: Esau

Long-term promises like inheritance require a lot of wisdom in stewardship. What works in one season, won’t necessarily work in the next.

This stewardship requires you to balance your present needs with your expectations for the future.

How do you feed today’s hunger without squandering tomorrow’s promise?

The Israelites had the future promise of Canaan as they journeyed through the wilderness. But they also needed their daily supply of manna to keep them going. It didn’t just fall on their plates though. They had to go out each day and collect it as per God’s instructions.

What manna is God providing you with daily to sustain the promises He’s given? What instructions has He given you about how that manna should be consumed?

The fallacy of good intentions.

Re: Saul

Saul outrightly disobeyed God with the aim of honouring Him in the process. When put this way, it’s clear there was something off about his plan all along.

Good intentions are inherently not a bad thing. But when we exalt our good intentions above God’s intentions for us in a matter, we’re essentially elevating ourselves above God. Our hearts saying – we know better than You do, God, and so we can do better than You can.

The root of this is pride. It takes humility to acknowledge that we don’t know best and God’s way could actually be better than our own. Especially when we can’t logically see the how at the time.

This pride becomes all the more dangerous because it separates us from God. We can’t attain to/sustain the original promise we have from God without God.

What areas of pride may be resident in your heart that are causing you to steward God’s promises your way instead of His way?

Good stewardship is not an automatic ability that some have and others don’t. We all start from ground zero and have to learn. With intentionality, it’s something we continually grow in and work towards. Mistakes can and will happen. Grace and restoration abounds. When you’re diligent in reminding yourself of what’s at stake, you won’t be as quick to jump onto a fleeting moment at the expense of your eternal destiny.