How much time do you spend talking about your marriage/relationship/singlehood? How much time do you spend lamenting and complaining about what’s frustrating you? How much time do you spend learning about relationship matters? How much time do you spend actually praying about it/for yourself/for your partner? One of the critical lessons God has taught me … Continue reading Where Is Your Time?
Category: Marriage Bed
Chosen Not Cheated: Relationship Edition
Earlier this year, my girl – Koki Oyuke – published a book aptly titled: Chosen Not Cheated. This month, my posts are a tribute to her book (and life) message. More details on the book after the post. “Not denied, just in between floors.” Koki Oyuke (Chosen Not Cheated – Chapter 8) Romance is … Continue reading Chosen Not Cheated: Relationship Edition
Show Up For Your Now
Relationships are always full of transition. Whether you’re loving your single years and learning to be in a relationship with yourself, or making the most of the dating years with your person, or figuring out that waiting in marriage is a reality you have to contend with on the regular. Relationships are always full of … Continue reading Show Up For Your Now
Marriage & Purpose III
When I got married, one of the things I did was drop my father’s name and adopt my husband’s name. I went the whole nine yards which included getting a new ID with the new name. A few years into marriage, it’s not something I think all that much about. But recently, I was getting … Continue reading Marriage & Purpose III
Marriage & Purpose II
In February, I wrote a post about why I think marriage exists – Marriage & Purpose. During a conversation with my husband about it, he encouraged me to do a follow-up post. And so, here we are. 🙂 How we enter marriage counts. The last lap to the wedding is often a time when many, … Continue reading Marriage & Purpose II
